something men absolutely need to understand about the feminine body

And I mean I want you to understand reverently, with your deep heart and god-mind. Feel the weight of it. Because when you truly evoke a woman…when you open her…when you draw her into devotion, surrender, softness, reverence, polarity, worship, safety, love...her body responds, her body begins primordial preparations. Biologically. Energetically. Primaly. Spiritually. A woman’s body is constantly listening for containment, for consistency, for truth, for whether she can open another inch or soften another layer. Whether she can bloom. And when she does…when she truly does…her body WILL begin orienting toward creation; creation in every sense. Her body begins nesting, pulsing. Bonding. Opening. Glowing. Preparing. Wanting more of the thing that feels like devotion and life. A child, a family, a pair bond, a home, a life...her nervous system reorganizes around what it has been touched by, often without her conscious awareness. And I think many men have absolutely no idea what they are awakening inside women when they speak certain words - when he invokes certain futures… when he blooms her heart open... when he worships her body… when he calls her deeper… when he fucks her to god... when he evokes her submission, her surrender, her primality, her enormous erotic heart. This is why, even when men are transparent about their unavailability for partnering or marriage, a woman may still try to change his mind. It's a *deep* impulse in the feminine. She WILL want more from you. Women know this happens - many men do not recognize the depth of it. And this is not me removing female responsibility, you know me. I deeply believe in women being discerning and watching reality instead of fantasy, accepting fully and openly communicating what it is she wants in relationship, remaining anchored in self-responsibility and not abandoning herself inside longing, which means there are many men that simply won't be ready for the full bloom of the feminine erotic and it's her responsibility to walk away. Or, if she chooses to dance that dance without the guarantee of longevity, she accepts the refining work of grief and loss and singing her devotion back to herself. But alongside that truth is another truth: Men must become conscious of the biological and spiritual power they carry when they evoke the fullness of the feminine energy in a woman. Because the feminine body is not passive in love, it is responsive. It moves toward life and in our bodies, life insists upon itself - we prepare for life to take root every month. It moves toward opening, creation, bonding and union. A woman’s embodied opening is real, but it is not the same as relational binding and it is shaped by both partners’ nervous systems, projections, and truth, not just masculine evocation. It is devastating when a woman is deeply opened by a man only to discover he had no idea nor capacity for what he was actually asking her system to do. A woman’s body is divinely and wonderously designed to respond to devotion. It is primordial. Wise. Intelligent beyond language. These bodies of ours know how to bloom in the presence of reverence, intimacy, polarity and devotion. The thing I want men to realize is that alongside the juicy, dripping, creative, erotic, otherworldly GUSH of goodness that comes from a woman's devotion, is that there is a heft, a weight, a responsibility...a magic that requires your continued presence and containment. Do not open a woman unless you are ready to hold the full breadth of her opening... And women, do not open prematurely unless you fully accept the outcome, and the possible inner work necessary to come back to gratitude, accountability and self-devotion. Perhaps what I most want men to understand is this: when a woman opens fully to you, it is not only her heart or sexuality you are touching, and if you are blessed enough to be met with that kind of opening, meet it with your deepest presence, honesty, and reverence. You are standing in the presence of creation itself - and no one stands in that presence unchanged.