The problem is that nobody wants to build now. ” Many marriages of today are not being destroyed because of lack of love. They're destroying each other for pride. Because of competition. Because of ego.
For wanting to be right instead of having peace.
Earlier a couple battled with issues.
Today many couples are fighting each other.
And although many are uncomfortable to accept it...
yes, there are homes where female or masculine energy no longer exists.
Just two people wanting to dominate, control and show who's boss.
She no longer wants to feel vulnerable because she learned to survive alone.
He no longer wants to lead because he was taught that everything he does will be criticized.
Then no one gives up.
No one listens.
Nadie admira.
No one Cares.
And a relationship without admiration.... sooner or later it becomes a silent war.
There are women who are exhausted from being "strong" all the time.
But there are also men who are tired of feeling inadequate even if they give their all.
The truth is this:
Many people want a relationship...
but they live acting like they're emotionally single.
They want love, but they don't know how to respect.
They want attention, but they don't know how to give peace.
They want commitment, but run away when it's time to mature.
And don't...
being a woman does not mean obeying blindly.
Being a man doesn't mean being in control either.
But a healthy relationship needs balance.
It needs energy, support, admiration and cooperation.
Because when you both want to be the “alpha” of the household...
relationship stops feeling like a shelter and starts feeling like competition.
And no marriage survives long when sleeping together feels more like living with a rival than with a partner.
The question is:
Do you really want love...
or you just want to win the arguments?
Because many relationships don't end because of lack of feelings.
They finish because nobody wanted to lower their pride.
And the ego is capable of destroying what love took years to build.
👉"Don't look for a partner to compete with.
Find someone you can emotionally rest with.
Because love shouldn't feel like a daily battle.
And here is the phrase that many need to hear even if it hurts:
👉“There are people who lost a good relationship... for the sickening need to prove they didn't need anyone. ”
---mendoza male
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