When you have a good heart...

You help more than you can, trust even when you doubt, deliver parts of you without asking if they will be taken care of, and you love... as if the risk doesn't exist. And that's where the wear and tear begins. Because not everyone feels the same, not everyone appreciates what they receive, not everyone understands what it takes to give from the bottom. Then comes the disappointments, the unexpected silences, absences that hurt the most because you would have stayed. And little by little you learn... not because you want to, but because life forces you to. You learn to give too much who does not know how to receive it's also a way to lose you. To trust without measure it can leave you empty. To love intensely doesn't always guarantee to be loved the same way. And yes... many times it will be you who ends up more hurt, who feels more, who remembers the most. But that doesnt mean that your way of being is wrong. It means you haven't learned yet to choose better where to put your heart. Because have a good heart it should not be a condemnation, but a virtue that also needs limits. It's not about stopping loving, nor to close you, not to become cold. Its all about taking care of who you are, not to give it to someone who doesn't deserve it, de entender que darlo todo it also entails knowing when not to do it. Because in the end, you're not the most damaged for loving like this... you're just someone who's still learning that love must also begin with oneself. I liked it a lot ©️ D.R. #MeGustóMucho